Music is always important in our lives, particularly during wedding events. It de-stresses our minds, sets our mood, alleviates our energy, and makes us feel lighter and happier. Carefully selecting your wedding music can definitely keep everyone in their best heartbeat and can even make the day more memorable for the both of you. Before going to the songs, be reminded that it will be played at least three times during the whole ceremony. Songs for the processional march, father-daughter dance, and bride-groom dance. Some also include a dance for the newlyweds and the guests, in which the latter would pin money to the newlyweds’ clothes. Here are a few tips on how choose the best music for the bridal parties and how to keep these organized for the wedding event:
Avoid procrastination – You may feel that choosing the songs for your wedding event is pretty easy. After all, you and your partner know the music that makes your hearts skip. But, you should never procrastinate in choosing your song or you would end up using just any song in the DJ’s list. It is better to start choosing for the right songs weeks ahead of the date than rushing in the final hours just to have any music; this could ruin your mood as well as the guests’.
Compromise – Though most partners have a lot of similarities, this does not mean that your partner may agree to every song that you choose for the wedding ceremony. While a lot of the songs might be agreeable to both parties, men sometimes find love songs or romantic pieces corny and would not include mushy selections during the event. Argument would not do well to both of you, so try talking to him about the mood that you want to achieve when this song is played or the whole objective of the dances. If he takes these into consideration, great, but, if he is stiff with his decision not to include romantic songs, you might want to compromise and proceed to other songs that both of you can connect. Compromise is the key to achieving goals in a less stressful way. Nevertheless, most men don’t actually give a shot to bridal party dresses as such decision is typically handed to the woman, so take this time to do what you are best at. At least, you still have the part of the wedding planning where you can make use all of your power.
Choose only your songs – Whether it is your parents or pals that don’t love your selected songs, remember to only listen to your heart. Never allow them to make you feel bad about the music that you want played on your big day. Remember that it is your big day; you and your hubby are the lead stars, so there is no reason for them to judge on your choices whether you love pop, blues, techno, or rock for your big day. Don’t let their judgment ruin your mood and focus only on the things that make you feel happy for your upcoming wedding day, albeit thank them for their opinions. This scenario can also be applied if your friends or family members have tons of opinions about your choice of bridal dress or wedding gown designer. Actually, it does not even matter if they want you to get a Vera Wang when you want inexpensive yet gorgeous selections from Bridesire. DJs may also create a list of songs for your wedding day. Check the listing first and give him an approval. Don’t approve if you have not listened to the songs beforehand. The final say should always come from you and your hubby’s mouth since the both of you are into this together.
Get inspiration – If you are quite unsure on what songs to use, you can get inspiration from online and offline sources. Sometimes, when you get stuck in one task, the rest of the scheduled tasks are also delayed, which can cause problems. Avoid getting stuck in choosing the right songs by getting recommendations, checking online, or letting your partner decide the songs for the both of you.
Definitely the right music played on your wedding day can make all the difference that you want to attain. It can create the right ambiance of love and happiness in the area. It can make you feel every inch sexy in short wedding dresses or in long bridal gowns. Clinging on your partner’s shoulders with your favorite songs played in the air lets you feel loved and brings back memories that the two of your shared before you finally decided to make it official. Did you know that couples who have stayed together for long years have claimed that they never fail to listen to their favorite love songs or spend some romantic nights with their favorite music playing? The music brings back old memories that make them fall in love over and over again. Therefore, while you are planning on wearing dresses in modest style or short length on the occasion, think of the music that you and your partner would dance to forever.